theoriginalAidskake Skrevet 13. juni 2007 Del Skrevet 13. juni 2007 Jeg har aldri sagt at jeg ikke kan åpne døren selv. Det er ikke det det er snakk om her.. Han spurte om hva som blir annsett som gentelman, og ikke hva vi jenter kan gjøre selv.. Det er helt klart at vi klarer å åpne døren selv, og dra ut stoler osv.. Men det er fremdeles ikke det det er snakk om! 8852879[/snapback] Amen, sistah! Iril har masse gode poeng her. Er helt enig. Alle jenter liker gentlemen. Selvom vi ikke forventer å få dørene åpnet for oss, er det fortsatt koselig at det skjer. Lenke til kommentar
EB_Veyron Skrevet 14. juni 2007 Del Skrevet 14. juni 2007 En liten liste: Klikk for å se/fjerne innholdet nedenfor The Acts of A Gentleman A gentleman opens all doors for his woman. A gentleman helps his woman on with her coat when going outside. A gentleman helps his woman off with her coat when coming inside. A gentleman will give his woman his coat when it is cold or raining. A gentleman will carry anything over five pounds for his women or her friends (or at least offers). A gentleman walks on the traffic side of the sidewalk to protect his woman from danger or splashes. A gentleman walks between his woman and any potential threats. A gentleman goes first when there is any potential dirty, unfamiliar, or dangerous environment (i.e., taxi cab, dark alley, or an escalator) to make sure it is clean and safe for his woman. A gentleman lets his woman go first when there is no danger or unfamiliarity ahead. A gentleman offers his arm when walking to and from social events with his woman. A gentleman helps a woman with her seat before he sits down. A gentleman picks up an object dropped by his woman. A gentleman walks beside his lady on the stairs. A gentleman starts revolving doors for his woman. A gentleman always carries a handkerchief for his woman to dry raindrops or tears. A gentleman offers his seat to women and seniors. A gentleman respects his elders, especially his mom. A gentleman respects his ‘servants’ (i.e., wait staff, taxi drivers, etc). A gentleman tips at least 15%. A gentleman says ‘please’ and ‘thank you’. A gentleman addresses his new acquaintances (especially elders) by their title and last name (eg., Mr. Smith) until asked to use their first name. A gentleman will only talk when he has been formally introduced. Otherwise he asks ‘Have we met?’ A gentleman never smokes in front of a woman. A gentleman never eats until everyone’s food has arrived and the host has lifted his or her fork. A gentleman waits to drink until his host has lifted his glass. A gentleman chews with his mouth shut. A gentleman never speaks with food in his mouth. If necessary, he covers his mouth when speaking with food in his mouth. A gentleman never reaches across someone for food at the dinner table. A gentleman puts down his knife after cutting his food. A gentleman always thanks the host at a social or business function. A gentleman coughs thoughtfully. If he is overcome by a fit of coughing or sneezing, he excuses himself and leaves the meeting or dinner table to recover. He returns quietly and apologizes again as he takes his seat. A gentleman pays the bill discreetly. When he invites someone for lunch or dinner, he accepts the bill discreetly and without fanfare. When he is the guest, he may offer to pay his share or to buy the wine but never argues about who will pay the tab. A gentleman maintains eye contact with whomever he is speaking with. A gentleman introduces potential strangers amongst his group. A gentleman takes the floor and offers his bed to the women guests in his home. A gentleman waits until women are inside their home before driving away after dropping them off. A gentleman judges others only on character, not social or financial status. A gentleman is comfortable around all classes of people. A gentleman does not seek approval from others. A gentleman is never jealous; rather he is supportive of the success of others. A gentleman is courageous when faced with adversity. A gentleman is a defender and protector of those less able to protect themselves. A gentleman is able to resolve issues diplomatically without violence. A gentleman doesn’t need to use threats. A gentleman follows through on all of his promises. A gentleman forgives and forgets. A gentleman can admit when he is wrong. A gentleman recognizes his own weaknesses and strives to correct them. A gentleman welcomes advice from others, but never demands it. A gentleman moves his body slowly and fluidly. A gentleman is strong and decisive. A gentleman is able to fend for himself. A gentleman is responsible and takes accountability for all of his actions. A gentleman is ambitious and not side-tracked by distractions from others or temporary gratification. A gentleman does not burn energy reflecting on things that he has no power over. A gentleman has a sense of gratitude for all that is right and good with the world. A gentleman is always loyal no matter what. A gentleman values integrity. He is true and honest to himself and ethical in regards to his own beliefs. Finally, a gentleman is fun, stylish, adaptable, thoughtful, genuine, strong, goal-oriented, chivalrous, and confident. Lenke til kommentar
Akvarius Skrevet 15. juni 2007 Del Skrevet 15. juni 2007 (endret) En liten liste: Klikk for å se/fjerne innholdet nedenfor The Acts of A Gentleman A gentleman opens all doors for his woman. A gentleman helps his woman on with her coat when going outside. A gentleman helps his woman off with her coat when coming inside. A gentleman will give his woman his coat when it is cold or raining. A gentleman will carry anything over five pounds for his women or her friends (or at least offers). A gentleman walks on the traffic side of the sidewalk to protect his woman from danger or splashes. A gentleman walks between his woman and any potential threats. A gentleman goes first when there is any potential dirty, unfamiliar, or dangerous environment (i.e., taxi cab, dark alley, or an escalator) to make sure it is clean and safe for his woman. A gentleman lets his woman go first when there is no danger or unfamiliarity ahead. A gentleman offers his arm when walking to and from social events with his woman. A gentleman helps a woman with her seat before he sits down. A gentleman picks up an object dropped by his woman. A gentleman walks beside his lady on the stairs. A gentleman starts revolving doors for his woman. A gentleman always carries a handkerchief for his woman to dry raindrops or tears. A gentleman offers his seat to women and seniors. A gentleman respects his elders, especially his mom. A gentleman respects his ‘servants’ (i.e., wait staff, taxi drivers, etc). A gentleman tips at least 15%. A gentleman says ‘please’ and ‘thank you’. A gentleman addresses his new acquaintances (especially elders) by their title and last name (eg., Mr. Smith) until asked to use their first name. A gentleman will only talk when he has been formally introduced. Otherwise he asks ‘Have we met?’ A gentleman never smokes in front of a woman. A gentleman never eats until everyone’s food has arrived and the host has lifted his or her fork. A gentleman waits to drink until his host has lifted his glass. A gentleman chews with his mouth shut. A gentleman never speaks with food in his mouth. If necessary, he covers his mouth when speaking with food in his mouth. A gentleman never reaches across someone for food at the dinner table. A gentleman puts down his knife after cutting his food. A gentleman always thanks the host at a social or business function. A gentleman coughs thoughtfully. If he is overcome by a fit of coughing or sneezing, he excuses himself and leaves the meeting or dinner table to recover. He returns quietly and apologizes again as he takes his seat. A gentleman pays the bill discreetly. When he invites someone for lunch or dinner, he accepts the bill discreetly and without fanfare. When he is the guest, he may offer to pay his share or to buy the wine but never argues about who will pay the tab. A gentleman maintains eye contact with whomever he is speaking with. A gentleman introduces potential strangers amongst his group. A gentleman takes the floor and offers his bed to the women guests in his home. A gentleman waits until women are inside their home before driving away after dropping them off. A gentleman judges others only on character, not social or financial status. A gentleman is comfortable around all classes of people. A gentleman does not seek approval from others. A gentleman is never jealous; rather he is supportive of the success of others. A gentleman is courageous when faced with adversity. A gentleman is a defender and protector of those less able to protect themselves. A gentleman is able to resolve issues diplomatically without violence. A gentleman doesn’t need to use threats. A gentleman follows through on all of his promises. A gentleman forgives and forgets. A gentleman can admit when he is wrong. A gentleman recognizes his own weaknesses and strives to correct them. A gentleman welcomes advice from others, but never demands it. A gentleman moves his body slowly and fluidly. A gentleman is strong and decisive. A gentleman is able to fend for himself. A gentleman is responsible and takes accountability for all of his actions. A gentleman is ambitious and not side-tracked by distractions from others or temporary gratification. A gentleman does not burn energy reflecting on things that he has no power over. A gentleman has a sense of gratitude for all that is right and good with the world. A gentleman is always loyal no matter what. A gentleman values integrity. He is true and honest to himself and ethical in regards to his own beliefs. Finally, a gentleman is fun, stylish, adaptable, thoughtful, genuine, strong, goal-oriented, chivalrous, and confident. 8860343[/snapback] Er stort sett høflig og grei altså.. Ellers vil eg sei at ein Gentleman er ein som gjør disse tingene for å glede kvinnen. Driver ikkje IT Support for mine venninner for å få noe igjen for det, men fordi eg kan og dei spør om hjelp. Det er ein glede og glede andre Har eg blitt "utnytta"? Selvfølgeleg, men det er ein balansegang du lærer. :nei, seier ikkje at jenter er ute etter å utnytte gutter. Det går på personen ikkje kva kjønn ein har. Endret 15. juni 2007 av Akvarius Lenke til kommentar
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